I, personally, don't play with activities that I have no or limited experience with.
There is a deep attraction to many types of edge play, and if something I really am keen on learning comes up by my own interests, or the request of a submissive, I always do my best to research it thoroughly, find a guided hand (a thoroughly experienced person in this subject matter) to "show me the ropes", answer whatever questions I may have, and then practice it intensively on my own slaves (personal property).
An example of this would be my love for fireplay. I've always been in complete awe and admiration for seeing fellow Tops and Dominants in "the scene" working their flames on a beautiful body. I've attended many workshops for over 2 years on fireplay, had private fireplay lessons, and still don't feel that my technique is quite perfect, so I wouldn't add it to my sessioning list of activities just yet..or grant a request for it.
That being said, this sounds like it's turning in to a bit of a witch hunt. One of my favorite quotes says "The D in BDSM stands for discretion". Alterna2r was in his right to post about his experience with discretion in regards to the Top, gathering different opinions, and he has every right to see or not to see the Lady/Domina/Mistress/Nurse if he feels so. In my humble opinion, the Dom in the scene shouldn't feel like she has to expose herself, but perhaps she'd like to in order to reveal light from her side. Or perhaps, not, it's within her right. Hopefully she has learned to be more careful with edge play in the future, or learned what to avoid in future scenarios.
Happy Weekend + Enjoy your kinky play,
Lady Sophia Larou
Har synes jeg, det ville være på sin plads at hendes med-Dominaer kom på banen. Det er også i deres interesse at der komme en ordentlig udgang på denne sag.
Hvordan ville de takle en tilsvarende situation, hvad er deres råd til hende. Og hvordan sikkre vi at der ikke sker fatale uheld i vores leg.